Don't blame the mother

Don't blame the mother.

Your body is a teenager. It's an immature, impulsive mechanism, unaware of the consequences, unable to predict results and therefore dangerous to trust.

The mind is the mother. All it ever wanted to do was to take care of the child. And so it comes up with all kinds of ways to help that child. And from the start, the mind sees the body. The body doesn't see the mind. We all know this, there is just too much distraction around and we are not seeing what we are actually here to look at. Everyone is busy showing us different things to distract us from seeing actual reality.

The mind wants to make sure that the body is healthy,that it's financially stable, successful and it comes up with all kinds of things to ensure that.

The body without the mind is just a shell. When the body is sick, the mind is the one that immediately gets to work, striving to regain balance, find ways to heal and move forward.

Mind protects, cares and guides the body, ensuring it's safety and well being.

And than we get into a system like HD and we misunderstand the mechanics and start hating on our mind, blaming our mind, even punishing it for trying to do what it does best, for helping us survive.

My mind is so creative, i am so grateful for it and i truly enjoy it. I hear it and acknowledge it. When I'm struggling, my mind goes out of it's way to help and i could never blame it for that.

Just yesterday, it came up with so many creative new business ideas for me. I loved them. They were really amazing. My mind works wonders under pressure. I know it does that with best of intentions and i love it for that. My mind wants me to live. And after our mothers give birth to us and we stop requiring their constant care and protection, our minds take on that role.

The problem here is the child. As long as it's immature, it is unable to make correct decisions for itself, and this is why the mother feels she needs to keep interfering. Once the child is mature, it is then able to make decisions in tandem with the mother. It's able to objectively see what is correct for the whole.

Learn to swim. The body usually gets to the end of its life living dependent on the mother, who is constantly struggling to keep this child's head above the water. At one point the child needs to start putting in the effort, without just relaying on it's mothers arms. Don't ditch the mind too early. If you let go of the hand to early, the body drowns. If you keep it close while in the process of learning, you survive.

And you can start drowning many times. The mother never leaves. But once it sees you master this skill, it will not be afraid for you anymore. Even though it's always there, it will let you go and watch you from the safe distance.

And all your strategies and authorities can't help. You can't choose to let go of the mother. She will let go of you as a result, as a reward for mastery, once she is certain you can do it without her assistance

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Art by CreatopiaDesign